little problem with my GF and Mom

[Hoc Sinh]

I been friend with this girl for more than 5yrs already, but we just dating for about 9months. My mom for some reason doesnt like this girl and she never met her b4. Now she make me stop seeing my gf, i guest b/c i spend way too much time with her and my mom assumed that am not studying but during the week am away I only come home for the weekend. and if i dont stop seeing this girl my mom said that she will come to her house and talk with that girl's mom, but her mom really like me i dont know, i guest b/c one of her friends said that i come from a religious family. wat should i do now? this girl she is very very sensitive, and hay dận so i dont know how to break it to her, yes i do want to spend more time on studying and i should which i will (she also push me to go to class and study) but we have a habit of talking on phone for 3-4hrs everynite (dont ask me wat we talking about b/c i dont know) i dont know wat to do. She never has a bf b4 so am her first and she also my first, she was seeing someone b4 (me too)

[ChiLaMuaThuRoi]

quick question : How old are both of you ?

[MuaHaTuongTu]

she seen someone before u and you still her first, that's amazing ...:D :D

BTW, let study first, get your BS ....then talk about dating/relationship...it never late for guys .

[Hoc Sinh]

that is what my mom said too, i mean i agree with her but just for fun...ok i'll tone it down but she want me to completly stop well am 23 and she's 22, well i didn't steal her from anybody but hehehehe,,,she sometime still think about that guy which sometime make me mad but only when he write to her or call her but she doesnt call him, she said give her time to forget that guy but i dont really care like one of the post in here " cai gi cua minh thi se thuoc ve minh"

[ChiLaMuaThuRoi]

umm ... 23 & 22 . Are you the youngest one or the only son in the family ?

Act like Romeo : Tell your mom that you will drop out of school & suicide if she doesn't let you have a girlfriend . Or even worse , you'll castrate yourself so you won't have any kid later . Or you'll listen to her & not dating that girl ... but you'll find a boy to be your boyfriend .


Good luck .

[HoaNhi]

sis dk, nghe sis khuyên , HN hết hồn ..... Act giống vậy, lỡ có người làm thiệt :D :D
But I like your advice though !! :D

[cathi]

before you do any thing why not just spend more time at home, staying w/ your mom, talk to your mom and be a good boy at home :) do that for a couple weeks, then tell your mom that let you hang out w/ your girlfriend, but you promise that you will finish school w/ good grade, to do this you have to limit your time of talking on phone w/ your girlfriend and also just seeing her on the weekend or during school time if you both go to the same school, you can call her and talk everyday but just after you finish your homework and just for 30 mins or 1 hr max :)

[dsuqtran]

umm ... 23 & 22 . Are you the youngest one or the only son in the family ?

Act like Romeo : Tell your mom that you will drop out of school & suicide if she doesn't let you have a girlfriend . Or even worse , you'll castrate yourself so you won't have any kid later . Or you'll listen to her & not dating that girl ... but you'll find a boy to be your boyfriend .


Good luck .

Ha..ha. Multi-Advices

[vietmass]

Em trai để bạn gái cho anh VM giữ chừng nào em hoc. xong anh tra lại cho em ...vậy đi hén :D:D:D... JK

Show your mom that even you are on a date but still do good in school. :D:D:D

[Hoc Sinh]

thank you Chi Cathi nha Em se~ lam vay....chet kong biet nen goi la Chi hay la Em ta`????

[May Trang]

23? tuổi này nếu học đúng tuổi thì đáng lẽ đã ra trường. At your age, you should be mature enough to be responsible for your own study, your love and your future. You should not let your mom worry about your study, that's only for high school kid. You can love, you can talk, but should know how to limit it so that it doesn't affect your school work.

[cathi]

thank you Chi Cathi nha Em se~ lam vay....chet kong biet nen goi la Chi hay la Em ta`????

gọi bằng thím còn dzư sức huống chi là chị á cưng

[Hoc Sinh]

ay da....da chau xin loi thim.....

[cathi]

hihihi... gọi bằng chị cũng được rồi em HocSinh nhỏ ạ :)

[Hoc Sinh]

da chau khong co muon that le voi thim.

[cathi]

thế cháu về ráng be a good boy of your mom nhá, chúc cháu học giỏi và được lòng cả mom lẫn girlfriend nhá!

[Minh Tuyền]

I just read ur problem that u haven between ur mom and ur GF situation , I have to say that ur mom do have a point , maybe she is worry that ur GF taken too much time away from ur study , or maybe she cant except the change after U have a GF ( mom never know how to let goes ) , but also , ur mom might not known how much ur GF pushing U toward education . U should talk to ur mom and make things clear , dont think about how to break the " break up" new to ur GF yet , I'm sure she will be heartbroken after hearing what u say . anywayz , U a man now !!! 22 , that enough to support urself and have enough knowledge to deal with love . 9 months is a long time , I think U should start asking urself " DO U LOVE HER ? AND HOW MUCH ?" if U love her , then talk to ur mom so things wont get complicate . If U dont , break up NOW , cause U are not mature enough to hold on to a serious relationship .
wish U luck !!!

[xnt]

Khiếp thật ! Mai mốt có cháu phải gởi nhờ các thím răn dùm vậy :D

[vietmass]

Hehhe .. lol ..:D:D

[kdtty3k]

kakakakkaak....nguoi cung canh ngo.....tui thi Ong Gia kong ddong y

[cathi]

nói thiệt chứ cathi cũng có thằng em trai, hồi trước lúc nó quen dzí nhỏ bạn gái mẹ cathi cũng hong đồng ý cho nó quen nhỏ đó, hăm he đủ thứ hết tuy là cathi cứ nói vô giúp nó hoài cuối cùng thì he chẳng những quen her mà còn cưới her luôn and mẹ cathi cũng phải chấp nhận thôi, nên là mấy vụ này cathi thông cảm and hiểu rõ sự khó khăn của con cái lắm á, vấn đề ở chỗ cha mẹ nào cũng thương con cái cả if biết cách thì sẽ được lòng thôi hà, chẳng những he cưới luôn mà còn mang về ở chung w/ ba mẹ cathi luôn mới hay đó chứ, nhưng mà bên trong câu chuyện ra sao thì dài dòng and complicated lắm à :)

[Hoc Sinh]

K hay qua ha, nhu vay ma con cuoi dduoc. Em day buon thui ruot luon ne

[iwillnotbesad]

da chau khong co muon that le voi thim.


da. chao` thim' cathi va chu' Vietmass! :D

[iwillnotbesad]

Hoc ma` khong co' GF la chon doi` tuoi tre? :D
choi ma` khong hoc. ban re~ tuong lai. :D

[iwillnotbesad]

Mom, if you could only see the way she loves me
Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about our love
And what I must do
If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
When she says she loves me

Well you got your reasons
And you got your lies
And you got your manipulations
They cut me down to size

Sayin’ you love but you don’t
You give your love but you won’t

If you could only see the way she loves me
Then maybe you would understand
Why I feel this way about our love
And what I must do
If you could only see how blue her eyes can be when she says
When she says she loves me

Seems the road less traveled
Show’s happiness unraveled
And you got to take a little dirt
To keep what you love
That’s what you gotta do

Sayin’ you love but you don’t
You give your love but you won’t
You’re stretching out your arms to something that’s just not there
Sayin’ you love where you stand
Give your heart when you can

[vietmass]

da. chao` thim' cathi va chu' Vietmass! :D

Trầu âu ... làm chi muh lên đến hàng chú dữ rứa bro :D

[iwillnotbesad]

Trầu âu ... làm chi muh lên đến hàng chú dữ rứa bro :D

:D :D :D

[vietmass]

:D :D :D

Thấy bro cừ nóng quá thui đi tém :D:D:D

[Hoc Sinh]

Thanks IWILLNOTBESAD thanks for the poem that's very nice and the

Hoc ma` khong co' GF la chon doi` tuoi tre?
choi ma` khong hoc. ban re~ tuong lai.

true very true.

[hamtata]

Ừ, có người nói:

Học không chơi hao mòn tuổi trẻ
Chơi không đẽ bán rẽ tinh trùng...

Ừ...
Ừ...

Hoc ma` khong co' GF la chon doi` tuoi tre? :D
choi ma` khong hoc. ban re~ tuong lai. :D

[yeudoi]

Trong Tuần đi đâu làm gì mà cuối tuần mới về nhà ??

[alann]

23? tuổi này nếu học đúng tuổi thì đáng lẽ đã ra trường. At your age, you should be mature enough to be responsible for your own study, your love and your future. You should not let your mom worry about your study, that's only for high school kid. You can love, you can talk, but should know how to limit it so that it doesn't affect your school work.

ngứa tay ghê, nhưng thấy cái lời khuyên này có lý nhất ...cho 1 chai bia!
Cứ lo lang bang tới tuổi này mà chưa ra trường thì coi hổng được à nha...không có bằng coi chừng gf cho đi tàu bay ...giấy!! ráng lên đại ca!!

[alann]

sorry hit the wrong button

[taydu]

Your Mom shouldn't do that. Anyway explain your situation with your girl and tell her that you going to solve this problem with your mom and you better do it.

In My Opinion Parent shouldn't involve in their children (18+) relationship, teach them what right and wrong but shoudn't tell them what to do.

[Hoc Sinh]

i wish my parents would understand that. now it really bad btw my parents and my gf. they god tired of it so...