Friends with an EX?

[FlirterSanHoe]

Let's say that you recently broke up on pretty ok terms and there is no hate between you two and getting back together is impossible in the near future. Would you guys be friends with your ex and what level of friendship?

Example: friends just for the title of friends, acquaintance, distant friend, short phone call or email every now and then to see how each other is doing but never hanging out again, hanging out every now and then kind of friends, or close friends

[CaLiForNian]

yeah OK... friends OK, just talking OK, hanging out OK, kissing sometimes would be possible....home run a possibility when she's weak.

j/k

[dkhang]

dude, once you're already a couple (and doing couple stuff), you're basically best friends, you share almost everything, what's wrong w/ you? why wouldn't you want to be friend? no matter what that person did matter to you for a part of your life, right? what kind of question is that? possible getting back together? you're gay or something... or you're just a girl, can't make a decision. 1 is still 1, not 2. i'll be ashame of myself if i ask this question. don't you have more important stuff to worry in life? like get your life together?

[FlirterSanHoe]

dude, once you're already a couple (and doing couple stuff), you're basically best friends, you share almost everything, what's wrong w/ you? why wouldn't you want to be friend? no matter what that person did matter to you for a part of your life, right? what kind of question is that? possible getting back together? you're gay or something... or you're just a girl, can't make a decision. 1 is still 1, not 2. i'll be ashame of myself if i ask this question. don't you have more important stuff to worry in life? like get your life together?


well the possible getting back together is common in every breakup. Ex's can rekindle the flame sometime in the future. That happens a lot of times.

More important stuff to worry about?
yes...but sometimes moving on is really hard. So knowing how much contact is appropriate would help since the less contact you have with the person, the easier it is to move on. Just wanted to know you guys opinions.

And no I'm not ashamed of asking a question. Questions aren't stupid. Questions make conversation and is part of society.

[kdtty3k]

true FSH there is no stupid question but only stupid answer that's wat my mommy told me...kekekeke...

[DaPooh65]

good terms or not cung kho lam friends lam theo my onion...ua lon opinion. Thi du thay ex cua minh co nguoi yeu khac, con minh thi van con nuoi hy vong thi be friends hoi kho do nhe...take ACE advice ....get on with your life...when she needs you to talk to she contact you...my 2 nickels hehehe....vat gia leo thang
2 cents hoi dung duoc roi.

[ChiLaMuaThuRoi]

Nếu chia tay vì gây gỗ , xích mích nhỏ và vẫn còn tình cảm ... thì trò chuyện , quan tâm cho nhau tí cũng hông sao . Bây giờ có thể hông quen lại được nhưng biết đâu , vào 1 ngày cuối thu , 2 người sẽ cặp lại . :)

[Saigonian]

For guys, I think it is not so much a problem. For girls, it can be tough!

[dkhang]

well the possible getting back together is common in every breakup. Ex's can rekindle the flame sometime in the future. That happens a lot of times.

More important stuff to worry about?
yes...but sometimes moving on is really hard. So knowing how much contact is appropriate would help since the less contact you have with the person, the easier it is to move on. Just wanted to know you guys opinions.

And no I'm not ashamed of asking a question. Questions aren't stupid. Questions make conversation and is part of society.

you are completely right, there's no stupid question, but only ____ person would ask that kind of question. no offend man.. if you still have a feeling, why break up? if you can't live w/ her for some reasons, or something annoy you enough to break up w/ her, just be friend.. don't even think about getting back together.. it's just a stupid thing ever.. .you're not in high school anymore (maybe that you are right now, then .. my bad). otherwise .. move on.. nothing in life is hard.. prince!

[madman]

If it makes you get over her easier, than stay away from her until you're ok. Don't think about her or anybody else, just do what's best for you and go from there!

But if you still want to get back with her, then spend lots of time with her. I'd give it a week until yall are back together...unless she has somebody else in mind!

[LovelystarNJ]

it's ok to be friends

[Lina]

Let's say that you recently broke up on pretty ok terms and there is no hate between you two and getting back together is impossible in the near future. Would you guys be friends with your ex and what level of friendship?

Example: friends just for the title of friends, acquaintance, distant friend, short phone call or email every now and then to see how each other is doing but never hanging out again, hanging out every now and then kind of friends, or close friends
It's a "no no" and "no no" and "no no", moving on babe

[lt8]

FlirterSanHoe…I say follow your heart. If you falling in love with her, not taking advantage of the situation then go for it. It is beautiful to be “falling” in love, so don’t worry too much of the future.
Dkhang, if you can’t give advice then don’t trash people. Let’s be nice and make friend.

[amtham]

you can be friends until ... one of you is dating again. I doubt it that your new love would be comfortable knowing you are friend with your ex. :)

Agree w/ Lina! Just move on! It's polite to say Hi or chat with her whenever you run into her but to make an effort of reaching out and getting touch + and keep in touch will be hard for both of you to move on.

[La_Zieu_Bong]

you can be friends until ... one of you is dating again. I doubt it that your new love would be comfortable knowing you are friend with your ex. :)

Agree w/ Lina! Just move on! It's polite to say Hi or chat with her whenever you run into her but to make an effort of reaching out and getting touch + and keep in touch will be hard for both of you to move on.
oh really?
i've always thought that it'll be nice to keep in touch with some1 u once were close to and shared ur feelings and emotions with
......so u guys are saying that u should block out ur ex and forget about him/her????

[GWB]

:dance: Đã không như là mơ , nếu tình cờ gặp xin cứ làm ngơ :dance:

[lt8]

oh really?
i've always thought that it'll be nice to keep in touch with some1 u once were close to and shared ur feelings and emotions with
......so u guys are saying that u should block out ur ex and forget about him/her????

Yes, it is really nice to KIT, but most gals think that we guys are still trying to score them even after break-up, so they block the friendship to give us hint after hint.:attention: Guys that still hang onto their ex is cuz they have not found a right girl yet.:dance:
Guys or at least I am busy with trying to score new girl, so don't have much time to talk to the ex. :newwink:
Blocking out your ex just make your mind think more about her.
For ex: If I ask you don't think of a PINK ELEPHANT
what is the first picture come up in your mind ?
question ?