Do I Love Her?

[Saigonian]

I just broke up with my girlfriend last night, and I am sure if it is the right decision. She has been together for a while and she just finished her medical school. This Thursday, she is going to move far away from Houston to the land of the lovers, Richmond, Virgina for her residency. For the last couple months, I feel very strangely about the whole situation for I never believe in long distance relationship. Her residency is a rigourous 3 years long period, and I'm a very young and energetic guys at 27. I'm not sure it will work for either of us. I feel like it is encumber both of us for the next 3 three years with a long distance relationship. SHe might not be able to put her mind into helping others, and I might not be able to go on with my life. So, breaking up seems to be the way out. I keep wondering if I did it because for the better or because I don't love her much enough????

SG

[Saigonian]

I don't know ThuNga. About my girlfriend, or should I call "ex", she is a very sharp woman, very energetic, and stubborn somehow. However, it is just typical medical student. It is not so much of her personality that I came about with the decision. But somehow, I did not have enought faith in our relationship. Perhaps, I'm jealous, selfish, or not love her!!!

SG

[madzam]

you all correct!!!!!!! :) :)

[azncowboi]

I just broke up with my girlfriend last night, and I am sure if it is the right decision. She has been together for a while and she just finished her medical school. This Thursday, she is going to move far away from Houston to the land of the lovers, Richmond, Virgina for her residency. For the last couple months, I feel very strangely about the whole situation for I never believe in long distance relationship. Her residency is a rigourous 3 years long period, and I'm a very young and energetic guys at 27. I'm not sure it will work for either of us. I feel like it is encumber both of us for the next 3 three years with a long distance relationship. SHe might not be able to put her mind into helping others, and I might not be able to go on with my life. So, breaking up seems to be the way out. I keep wondering if I did it because for the better or because I don't love her much enough????

I think you just about love her too much!If you are a man, just do whatever you have to do, not just for you bro, bot for the one that you love,
If you think that love her more than anything else---> its mean that u don't love her enough,
If you think that your loved for her is not enough-----> you loved her more than anything else.

:rolleyes:

Good luck brother,

[ttr_n]

Ya I think if you still love her why don't you move with her and if you don't you just forget it and go on the life . Good luck and keep goes on the life....

[KonKet]

I think you get over it by now :D

[Antinhmongmanh]

trùi KK ..... chiên môn moi bới chiện xưa hong hà :)

[Minh Tri]

She moved to my town? Wow...What's her name?:D.
I don't understand why you broke up. Just because she moves to another location for her education does not mean you should break up. Long distance relationship does work. 3 years seem long but it will go by quick. If you cannot move with her, then visit her once or twice a year. Call her more. I don't see the reason why you break up unless there is something weird or not right in the relationship.

[MuaHaTuongTu]

Originally posted by MyBabyYou
She moved to my town? Wow...What's her name?:D.
I don't understand why you broke up. Just because she moves to another location for her education does not mean you should break up. Long distance relationship does work. 3 years seem long but it will go by quick. If you cannot move with her, then visit her once or twice a year. Call her more. I don't see the reason why you break up unless there is something weird or not right in the relationship.

bro MBY, she probably move back to Houston by now, so there is no luck for you.

[Minh Tri]

Originally posted by MuaHaTuongTu
bro MBY, she probably move back to Houston by now, so there is no luck for you.
hìhì...Buồn 5 giây.:D

[contepcon]

I am in the same your situation too. My bf will move to Virginia because of his job and his graduated school. I am also worry for our relationship because I don't trust on long distance one either. However, I will keep it:).

[MuaHaTuongTu]

It is hard to trust long distance love , but sometime the one close to you is not the right one either. There is no one on this world that you can trust, so, only trust yourself.

[Nick]

Originally posted by MuaHaTuongTu
bro MBY, she probably move back to Houston by now, so there is no luck for you.

May be it is a luck for me :cigar: :cigar: :cigar:

[Minh Tri]

If you don't trust anyone, then it is impossible to build up a relationship. The close one or the far one does not really matter.
Nick, :D

[MuaHaTuongTu]

Originally posted by Nick
May be it is a luck for me :cigar: :cigar: :cigar:

:D , but don't forget the one in VietNam bro ... hihi

[Nick]

Originally posted by MuaHaTuongTu
:D , but don't forget the one in VietNam bro ... hihi

:D Don't worry H, I know the limit :D

When you love some one, you must trust him/her. I have been with my fiancee for 7 years long distance relationship and we are still together :) The roads to happiness and victory are always rough and filled with obstacles. If you passed those obstacles, then your marriage will last longer. It's worth to try :)

[Minh Tri]

VCB có thêm một philosopher named Nick.:D

[XiMuiCaNaMeChua]

trời ơi topic old còn hơn trái đất mà ai lại mang lên trả lời làm XM tưởng "xí xọn " được liền chạy vào định bỏ hai cents vào :)

[JH]

Originally posted by XiMuiCaNaMeChua
trời ơi topic old còn hơn trái đất mà ai lại mang lên trả lời làm XM tưởng "xí xọn " được liền chạy vào định bỏ hai cents vào :)
câu này chứng minh được 1 chiện .. ai ăn hàng xí mụi cà na me chua nhiều sẽ bị thêm bị "xí xọn" trầm trọng 2 cents :D

kakaka :flying:

[XiMuiCaNaMeChua]

XM đâu có bán đâu mà người ta ăn hàng được :)

[emailmeif911]

Originally posted by Nick
:D Don't worry H, I know the limit :D

When you love some one, you must trust him/her. I have been with my fiancee for 7 years long distance relationship and we are still together :) The roads to happiness and victory are always rough and filled with obstacles. If you passed those obstacles, then your marriage will last longer. It's worth to try :)

agree

[emailmeif911]

Originally posted by MuaHaTuongTu
It is hard to trust long distance love , but sometime the one close to you is not the right one either. There is no one on this world that you can trust, so, only trust yourself.

không hẳn vậy! nếu không tin thì đâu gọi là "yêu" nữa...và thế thì làm gì có tình yêu trên thế gian này?

[sadness]

Originally posted by MuaHaTuongTu
It is hard to trust long distance love , but sometime the one close to you is not the right one either. There is no one on this world that you can trust, so, only trust yourself.
if you don't trust...how can you love that person??? Love is base on trusting each other...if you don't have that...then I think you don't have any love for the one you're with either.

[Tuong-Vi]

Originally posted by MyBabyYou
If you don't trust anyone, then it is impossible to build up a relationship. The close one or the far one does not really matter.

hôm ni thí MBY nói câu nì họp tình ghơ.. hông tìm ra câu nào chọc được hít :p
Originally posted by Sadness
if you don't trust...how can you love that person??? Love is base on trusting each other...if you don't have that...then I think you don't have any love for the one you're with either.

true true sis..

our mind is a powerful tool.. không có trust thì tự nhiên nó suy nghỉ lung tung.. đa nghi wá củng chít :)

[JH]

woah miss fiền :rolleyes:

[seanguyen]

Originally posted by MyBabyYou
If you don't trust anyone, then it is impossible to build up a relationship. The close one or the far one does not really matter.
Nick, :D

Agree 100%
Nếu không tin tưởng lẫn nhau thì xa cũng như gần, bèo mây trôi giạt cũng chỉ là chuyện sớm chiều thôi.
3 năm xa cách mà sợ chuyện xa mặt cách lòng thì chứng tỏ anh không tin cô ấy, hay nói khác hơn anh yêu, nhưng với một tình yêu khoảng cách chớ không phải là tình yêu vĩnh hằng.
16 năm xa cách và đợi mong còn qua mau, huống hồ gì chỉ 3 năm.
Không tin hỏi anh NICK coi, ảnh xa con CHIM của ảnh những 16 năm lận đó, ý lộn ảnh xa cô Long của ảnh 16 năm :)

[KonKet]

Originally posted by seanguyen
.....Không tin hỏi anh NICK coi, ảnh xa con CHIM của ảnh những 16 năm lận đó... :)
:D :D

[MuaHaTuongTu]

hihhihi, tại thí mí người nói chuyện vui nên MHTT cũng fá thui .... chớ LOVE and TRUST have to be together, nhưng ý MHTT nói là nếu mà người đó làm cho mình không còn lòng tin với họ như xưa nửa thì cho dù có van xin nài nỉ cũng là vô ý nghỉa mà .

You are so funny Seanguyen